Things To Do Before Having Children
Well this subject pumped into my head, after I were talking with one of my freinds, and I were asking her, from where she has time, to work, write, .......study and do a lot of the things in the day?& I don't have........?
She answered me that she is still not married, she doesn't have to cook, clean, worry about some one else!!!!!
Therefore I was thinking what was going on with people who will have children? or already has...
& since I don't have children still, I was thinking what I can do before Having children & I wouldn't or couldn't manage to do it when I have them as They say having children changes everything. While it’s unquestionably a remarkable time in one’s life, I can also see how the transition introduces obvious limitations. Suddenly you have dependent beings of life to care for. Responsibility kicks in, compelling you to dedicate a significant portion of your time and attention to the best interests of the little ones. Combine this with the obvious physical and lifestyle limitations that come with age and it seems to me that there are several activities to check off the bucket list before settling down to start a family.
Here’s some of my list of things to do before having children. For me, it’s simply about conquering as many life experiences as possible. I'm not quite there yet, but I hope to get closer.
She answered me that she is still not married, she doesn't have to cook, clean, worry about some one else!!!!!
Therefore I was thinking what was going on with people who will have children? or already has...
& since I don't have children still, I was thinking what I can do before Having children & I wouldn't or couldn't manage to do it when I have them as They say having children changes everything. While it’s unquestionably a remarkable time in one’s life, I can also see how the transition introduces obvious limitations. Suddenly you have dependent beings of life to care for. Responsibility kicks in, compelling you to dedicate a significant portion of your time and attention to the best interests of the little ones. Combine this with the obvious physical and lifestyle limitations that come with age and it seems to me that there are several activities to check off the bucket list before settling down to start a family.
Here’s some of my list of things to do before having children. For me, it’s simply about conquering as many life experiences as possible. I'm not quite there yet, but I hope to get closer.
- Take a month long vacation on the opposite side of the world in a city with a completely different culture.
- Throw the house party of all house parties. Supply all the booze and invite everyone I know
- Take sexy photos of myself keep them somewhere safe :)
- Switch jobs until I find one I truly enjoy
- Catch a ride in a hot air balloon
- Hit up Carnival in Rio de Janeiro
- Decide on my current life goals and write them down
- Sleep on the beach under the stars
- Take a shower under a waterfall
- Master one particular style of dance
- Go horseback riding on the beach with my partner
- Jump out of a perfectly good airplane
- Make love in places I'mnot supposed to
- Swim with the Dolphines
- Scuba-dive to a large ship wreck
- Learn to fly a plane
- Become skilled with a musical instrument
- Learn to speak a foreign language
- Read at least 30 books.
- Jump off a cliff into a natural body of water in an exotic location
- Go mountain climbing
- Go deep sea fishing and learn to filet and cook my own fish
- Embark on a long trip across the country with 3 of my best friends
- Ride a camel across a sandy desert and camp with my partner
- try water rafting
- Get in great shape and enter some kind of fitness competition
- Buy Spend a whole day making love without every leaving the houseyour dream house
- Stand up in front of a large audience and Do a performance
- Bicycle ride
- Learn to sail a sailboat
- Visit the Amazon Rainforest
- Master a few fancy dinner recipes
- continue learning by taking some new courses
- try to live in different place
well this some of my list may be I will strat to do what I can before having children and the rest which I cannot well I wish to do with them, what about you?
Well take my advice & enjoy life as much as u can because after birth not only u'll change but the whole life style will do, motherhood means commitments, responsibilities liabilities on ur shoulder , Hence The older u get, the more u can feel & as u know a journey of a thousand miles just begin with a single step.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry batool about not to fulfilling all ur dreams only then u'll learn that When you can't have what you want, it's time to start wanting what you have :-) my best wishes
well i started my steps,I'm enjoying what i can now, trying to achieve my dreams, but what u notice also that life change,& u change, some time u forget ur wishes or ur dreams,& life pass by you...i'm into it trying to achieve but even dreaming is a good thing,so mr.genious tell me what would u like to do brfore settling down since u didn't married yet?:))
ReplyDeleteWell,, my dreams is so simple than u can imagine, just to live happy secure life with one I love, having children, seeing them growing up day by day in front of ur eyes its so traditional & customary I know but as I said, mine is so simple.
ReplyDeletewell this only?the greatest
ReplyDeletemay be i'm too much much selfish but there is a lot of experiences in life, as i said in beginning of my post, & well i've passed a lot of experiences that changed my prepective to life!!
well what you would like to experience before acheiving ur dreams???
well for u noga we add especially that he can acheive his dreams
Fall in love :))) then also u can go
blind date :))) well it can be fantastic
well I think it could be intresting its not simple dreams what u have, its the most greatest dreams that everyone would like to acheive it ya noga, good luck for you, don't forget to invite me for wedding only :)))
Noga has really great dreams! I'm sure, you'll get it, Noga! Because all the things about "where to go", "what to try", "what to buy" etc. depend only on you. If you REALLY want it, then you just do it and tick in the list.
ReplyDeleteAbout the real DREAMS (as Noga's are), you can think of it, pray about it and constantly work at yourself. They are simple, but much more difficult and complicated.
And about things to do before having a baby... in my situation, when i'm waiting for baby..:) I think, that after you have baby, you can do everything above except only jumping from airplane, as you cannot risk your life a lot. Everything else you can do together with child and husband. For sure, it will bring much more joy, then you do it alone:)
These are my thoughts.
أحترم فكرك ..الحياة عموما مش جواز وولاد بس وقت ما يحصل ده لازم يبقى عندي خبرات كافية لأن دي مسئولية كبيرة جدا لازم أكون قدها وقتها
ReplyDeleteالمهم الواحد يستمع بحياته وميربطش المتعة دي عموما بالجواز والخلفة
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Well ,, thanx olga & hope u birth will be smooth & easy, wish u all the happiness with ur baby its ur 1st experiment I suppose, so god bless u.
ReplyDeletethnx micheal,I appreciate ur openion, marriage is important and it gives life sense & meaning,but also marriage limitate us,a lot ,& we can't be waiting for it, epecially women in egypt all their dreams is to get married & settle in home, life is full of experiences thats beautiful,intresting, good, bad....etc.
ReplyDeleteenjoy the life & live the day,
think of egyptians live like this?well thanx again:))0
yeah ola, noga has great dreams but does he has to wait for it, yeah prays works, but not when life passes from ur hand, he is waiting for miracle i think :)))
ReplyDeletemarriage is important but as i said earlier in my post this only simple experiences one can have, and u always can wish ,when u wish , they say ur wish come true,
yes ola all experiences can be done with having children, the only thing that u don't have time for it, u prefer ur children above urself, u work for them, u engage in threir lives which need to work on it a lot, ofcours u can be always open for change & challenge, but not as before as u were on ur own.
well we have to wait & see. i'm not saying u shouldn't have children but use the time to gain something new, also the life style in egypt is different than here :((