control what you can control
There’s a lot in this life that seems out of my control. I could easily spend my time in frustration, whining about and bemoaning those things while making everyone around me miserable as usual :)… but instead, I’m trying to take responsibility and ownership of whatever I can control.
- I can't control problems that pumps into my way but I can control my frustration and try to seek for the solution.
- I can’t control how other people behave, but I can control how I react when they do…
- I can't control the difference between me and my husband but I can control my temper and try to go for compromise.
- I can't control leaving the friends and seperation but I can control me by keeping contact with them and bw with them and visit them.
- I can’t control who becomes our next president, but I can vote and encourage others to do the same.
- I can’t control grocery prices, but I can be more vigilant about my shopping practices and meal preparation to get the best deals and keep our bill as low as possible.
- I can’t control the weather, but I can rearrange my schedule so we can enjoy every possible minute outside before the nasty cold sets in. I can also make the most of our time inside with fun projects .
- I can’t control the economy (which is too bad for all of us, because let me tell ya about the economic crisis) but I can react to it appropriately & try to work a plan to save the boat.
- I can’t control my husband’s income, but I can carefully steward it and stretch it to meet our needs.
- I can’t control accidents, but I can do my best to keep my family healthy by taking care of foods, exercising , making sure we all get enough sleep, and keeping germs at bay.
- I can’t control how busy we are… oh, wait! Sure I can! Ever heard of saying NO?!? (I know, I know, that doesn’t work in every situation, but we are all gifted with the same 24 hours in a day…)
- I can’t fix all, cure all, mend all, be all… so I’ll just control what I can control. It works for me.
- I can't control our lifes but i can appreciate the moment we live.
As there are always options more positive than complaining or doing nothing.
Another thing that works for me? A prayer !That !give hope to know how to control :)))
Haj batool ,, that's really wonderful way for controlling life, I don't think that easy to do but for those who have the ability to do, So huraaa ,,they will live a perfect life Thus nothing is perfect & no body is perfect therefore what u said is quit impossible but always there is hope which make anything impossible possible.
ReplyDeleteI realy appreciate ur thoughts ideas, the way u write & express ur self.. continue on the same path. That's my favorite blog :)
ohh well,,thats really isnot easy to practice it,but by practicing and appreciation of the moment we live,by trying to be optimistic, we could go on
ReplyDeletethnx for ur complement, but you exagerate there are a lot of blogs thats better than mine i can send you the link
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ReplyDeleteالى الامام يا روميل
و نحن نخلص الشغل و نمشى وراك على طول :-)))
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Sala Koncertowa
Akademia Muzyczna w Krakowie
ul. Św. Tomasza 43
31-027 Kraków
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20 lutego
Sala Koncertowa, godz. 19.00
"Orient connection"
Firas Hassan (Syria) - instrumenty perkusyjne
Iyad Haimour (Syria) - ney, quanun, oud
Dominik Wania (Polska) - fortepian
Jacek Fedkowicz (Polska) - bas
Wojtek Fedkowicz (Polska) - instrumenty perkusyjne
Jan Pilch (Polska) - instrumenty perkusyjne
Michał Gorczyca (Polska) - elektronika
Organizator: Katedra Muzyki Współczesnej i Jazzu, Katedra Teorii i Interpretacji Dzieła Muzycznego, Katedra Kompozycji, Katedra Wiolonczeli i Kontrabasu
Wstęp wolny
http://www.amuz.krakow.pl/?web=&ids=69
ok ya wanda, we will be ,my husband will be with me if you don't mind, so when u finish tell & we can meet :))
ReplyDeleteI can't control emotions but I can control thoughts
ReplyDeleteBatool :) What we first can control, I think, is our own thoughts. but this is soooo much difficult.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard for me to read books reviews, but your thoughts are very important. And music... yeah.. i'm sitting and listening:) Thank you!
hej yeah this is true,but its not difficult as emotions... well my thoughts are caotic ,well about books this the summary of the books if u don't want to read the whole book, u can read my summary & in this time u will feel that u have read the whole book, next time , i will try to improve it :))
ReplyDeleteif you have favourite of music you can send it to me and we can added to play list, names of ukrainian music :)