choices

"The difference between fiction and reality? Fiction has to make sence"

Tom Clancy

This evening I met Wanda at Bonarka Mall. She called to me today to check for our meeting tomorrow, As we start talking She was upset and me too from situations passed both of us today, then sponatnously we decided to meet together to go for a movie for letting go of our emotions, so we decided she would choose 1 film to see it, and she choosed film ondine, well that I think partly it was connected in some part to make us let go of our bad thoughts and it did I hope so

so we from our discussions about the situtions brought up today, I think its normal through our work and our life we meet situations when we are vey furious, upset and make us angry, crazy, frustrated ,hopless................etc

When life throws us nasty curveballs like this, it typically doesn’t make any sense to us, and our natural emotional reaction might be to get extremely upset and scream obscenities at the top of our lungs. But how does this help our dilemma? Obviously, it doesn’t.
The smartest, and oftentimes hardest, thing we can do in these kinds of situations is to be more tempered in our reactions. To want to scream obscenities, but to wiser and more disciplined than that. To remember that emotional rage only makes matters worse. And to remember that tragedies are rarely as bad as they seem, and even when they are, they give us an opportunity to grow stronger.
Every difficult moment in our lives is accompanied by an opportunity for personal growth and creativity. But in order to attain this growth and creativity, we must first learn to control our emotions. We must recognize that difficulties pass like everything else in life. And once they pass, all we’re left with are our unique experiences with each other and this crazy world, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way.
Life is short. Our thoughts steer our reality. We already know this. The choice is ours to make.

Thanks to you wanda I hope I will do that, well the film were also connected in some part of what i'm saying today I hope so I'm tired now and going to sleep ............zzzzzz